tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22234584.post2216516597292258673..comments2023-05-30T08:57:07.266-06:00Comments on Seeker of Happiness: Sunday Reflections: Individuality in MarriageCarrie Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08209518269608948257noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22234584.post-18705197360090336712011-03-29T20:53:22.745-06:002011-03-29T20:53:22.745-06:00So good. I think it is highly important to keep y...So good. I think it is highly important to keep your individuality in a marriage/relationshipamyschmameyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15821230780316827668noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22234584.post-37106036861719721902011-03-28T21:01:59.854-06:002011-03-28T21:01:59.854-06:00agreed. i loved this post.agreed. i loved this post.Lissa Chandlerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04006576453924952648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22234584.post-84090308095384101112011-03-28T15:41:38.693-06:002011-03-28T15:41:38.693-06:00i love this!!! you are so right...you still gotta...i love this!!! you are so right...you still gotta be you...even with your spouse! Thanks for the awesome reminder. By the way...congrats!!! I'm so excited for you and Scott and the little one!!! I truly miss you and hope all is well! Tell Scott hi! Take care!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22234584.post-70121491683867473682011-03-28T10:49:39.939-06:002011-03-28T10:49:39.939-06:00Chirspseed: Thanks for your comment and you write ...Chirspseed: Thanks for your comment and you write like we know each other but your profile is closed. Who you be?Carrie Lynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08209518269608948257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22234584.post-73997834887664128472011-03-27T22:25:29.736-06:002011-03-27T22:25:29.736-06:00i love this! i absolutely had a newlywed crisis fo...i love this! i absolutely had a newlywed crisis for a while and started to feel a very big hole in my heart where girlfriends and hobbies should have been. i felt guilty for a long time because it seemed like maybe i was feeling like david wasn't enough...which is just not true. david is more than enough, but he's not EVERYTHING (ok, he is "my everything"...whatever, you get it, haha). but finding the balance has been SO GOOD for us. i remember why i fell in love with him--because he has all these hobbies that make his personality different from mine. love this post.brandilynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01707145356350453673noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22234584.post-85246519888435811142011-03-27T20:39:56.762-06:002011-03-27T20:39:56.762-06:00You are so cute. This is the advice I have been tr...You are so cute. This is the advice I have been trying to tell my friends for years. So many guys have tried to make me stop hanging with my friends or doing what I love so that they can have me to themselves, and it has caused more than one fight...when you loose who you are and stop doing what you love, you loose part of yourself and it can do more harm than good in the long run. I will never stop being me because someone else doesnt like it. Couples going through therapy often are coached to get back into the things they love, and support the other even if its completely different than what they like. This is a very insightful little read Carrie:) My mom always said, "have a life in your own back pocket." To bad she didnt follow her own advice lol!Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05145617160260161097noreply@blogger.com